What is Meet Them?
Our capacity to address tough problems depends not just on understanding how we differ, but why. Yet in our polarised world it’s harder than ever to speak, listen and learn across divides.
Building on our existing work we are piloting a method we’re calling “Meet Them”. It’s a simple, evidence-based dialogue format that enables people with contrasting views on a sensitive issue to understand their opponents’ perspectives and enhance their own.
You might be facing a moment of truth, such as an important decision or event, that could be improved by revealing hidden assumptions. You might be both curious and vexed by the beliefs of those who oppose you, but never have the chance to meet and talk with them in good faith.
If this might be of interest please read on below and register your interest. We will get in touch to explain more, understand your hopes, prepare and match you with three other people for a two hour session in which you will all get the time to share what’s driving you on this topic.
You can decide from there if you’d like to hold more sessions with your group.
If you’re interested
There are three things to think about before you register interest.
Decide on a topic that motivates you. For our Pilot we already have people interested in Meet Them groups on a) Energy and Ecology b) Identity and Diversity c) Food and Nature and d) Wealth and Wellbeing. If any of those work for you, let us know. Or if you have a preferred alternative, tell us what it is and why it matters to you.
Identify the perspective of the person you like to meet. What is the belief or position on this topic that you find most difficult to understand and accept, and the sort of person holding it that you seldom you get to encounter..
Consider if and when you can dedicate the time required. In total it will take about five hours, which comprises two hour of guided preparation, two hours of the meeting, and one hour personal debrief.
Ready to register?
If you are interested in joining our pilot this Spring/Summer, register using the form to the left. We will get in touch with more information.
In the Subject write “Meet Them”
In the Message tell us about your answers to the questions above.